If you have a big date coming up on Valentine’s Day, chances are you want to look your hottest. Even if you’ve been with your man for a while now, it never hurts to remind him why he’s with you. Here’s what Glamour magazine’s beauty blog recommends for the big day.

1. Go with bedhead waves. There’s nothing sexier than slightly messy curls, so use Leonor Greyl – Mousse Au Lotus Volumatrice to give yourself tons of volume before you create them.

2. Use plenty of blush. A fresh-faced look is always pretty, and you’ll look like you’re blushing the whole time. Create a C-shape from the tops of your cheekbones to your temples for the best effect.

3. Apply black liner, like Paula Dorf – Eye Liner Pencil, all around your eyes. Then use a light, shimmery shadow to create a glowing rim all the way around and in the inner corners. Two coats of mascara will finish the look.

4. Go for bright lips. Choose a sultry red or a peachy pink for a kissable pout that your guy won’t be able to resist. A hint of shine on your lower lip will create a multidimensional effect, so don’t forget to pack lip gloss.